Happy New Year. It's the month (Jan) we have 9 birthdays in the family and mine is right smack dab in the middle. My children and family love this time of year. We have one big birthday party where we play and sing and have fun. Maybe you can join us next year. Actually, we love any time of the year as long as we can be together. So understand and know - I like people, particularly my family and friends and that’s what I enjoy most…well except for being with someone that has eyes that sparkle - lighting up the night and my life and a heart that beats with joy and love. And when that person is with me and my family and friends, we’ll be playing in the park. Playing games at our home, laughing our heads off and having a great dinner. Might that be you?
This whole process is such a delightful challenge. I imagine it’s difficult for you with so many guys bombarding you with hellos and many other requests.
Surprisingly I have received 100,s of letters and over 1,000 smiles. I’m not sure why. They are so amazing. Each is like a carefully crafted love letter to a faraway boyfriend. They’re a lot like what I received from my girlfriend when I was in college. Those letters always warmed my heart and made me feel quite special. The letters here are unusually gracious and stirring as if we’ve known each other for months or longer. It does make me wonder if the letters are sent to many man perhaps earning fees for such a service. But, I’m sure that’s not you. Besides, I can generally tell the ones that are uniquely written to me. So thanks for your very personal and heartfelt communication.
1st I want to apologize for “The Process” rather than having an exciting courtship (which will happen later). It’s a lot like the ‘Bachelor’ or ‘Bachelorette’ TV series because of the distance, language, and speed of getting to know each other. I see that reflected in the letters and pictures.
Additionally the process has been delayed as I have been helping two groups of people create 2 businesses. That has and is taking 1+ years so far. We’re about to launch both of them. But that’s been the case for a few months already. We plan on launching them in the 1st quarter of 2017. I say this because it consumes much of my time, leaving little to identify, court and engage a beautiful lady for a lifetime of excitement joy and all that you’re thinking about right now.
I’m going to a dance this weekend and next for new years as my only time out, other than playing baseball at Angel Stadium.
2nd, If you wrote me, I’m sorry I wasn’t able to get back to you. But after 2 more months (maybe sooner) I’m going to respond to your letter(s) or just send you a fresh one. So look at my profile again and again. No I’m not bragging, a narcissist nor begging. Simply, I will attempt to update it regularly (monthly, at least) to reflect my status and refine what I’m looking for in a woman, more about me and just what I’m doing. Hopefully you can respond to that, if you so care.
Enjoy! As I feel this could be something quite Great.
I woman quoted the bible view of a woman as
- a woman was created from man’s rib. Not from his head to rule over him, not from his foot to be trodden by him but from his rib to be protected by his arm, to be close to his heart and to be part of his very breathing.
She added -I would like to love and to be loved, protected, to have advice when I need.
I largely agree with that. I want someone beside me. Sometimes I’ll advise her and sometimes she’ll advise me. But we will always come together in the end, certainly the end of the day.
I’ll tell you about me below, but honestly, what matters is how do you handle challenges, problems, mistakes even joys, like Christmas. I remember with my former wife our 1st Christmas was rather troublesome with a child.
Because it won’t matter how beautiful you are or how accomplished I am if we can’t resolve differences which we surely will have. How will we resolve language differences? What if you feel like you’re all alone here? By the way I sometimes feel all alone here too. Which makes me all the determined to have you by my side, so we can find refuge in each other’s eyes and arms and bodies. That will be joyful and more exciting than most people can handle. We will accomplish much, make mistakes often, recover and be smoking hot again and again.
Now if that doesn’t get hot and bothered – stop reading and go on to the next guy.
Now, let’s get down to you and me.
How long do you think it takes to get to know someone?
We have to find out what makes us laugh, really laugh. What makes us cry. What makes us angry and what makes us only slightly angry and we (mistakenly) hold inside.
Here’s a lot of me:
I live life hard Play hard Love hard and enjoy hard. (Hard does not mean abrasive or rough) Actually, it would be better to say I enjoy life to its fullest. I engage in activities as best I can, sometimes well, sometimes not so well. But I generally have fun in all I do and more importantly, the people around me have more fun than they usually do. For instance I have a regular beach party called the BBSC (Beach Bonfire and Supper Club) where I bring different walks of life people together for their enjoyment and fellowship. You can see 1 of the videos I created for the BBSC.
I’m a Big family man. I love my children, grandkids and yours too. Even better they love me and include me in many activities. We do a lot of activities together more than just birthdays and holidays.
We play games a lot. Board and card games along with physical games outdoors. We enjoy and laugh and egg each other on….It’s a bunch of fun. We don’t have to with, but we play to win and have a great time…and we do.
I like sports, actually, I love to play sports. I played all major sports: Basketball, football, baseball. Now in life I play a little Baseball (softball), volleyball, badminton. I go to beach and body surf. I used to snow and water ski and probably still could. I ice skate like a duck . . . not really good. But maybe someone could teach me.
I really enjoy dancing now. You don't have to, but we could be quite the couple if you want to dance up a storm.
I love movies and going to the theater to see/hear musicals
Music: This is really important. What are we going to play in the house? Who do you listen to when sad, when happy when you want to be romantic. I like Country, Gospel, a little Classical, 40s-50s, sing alongs, show tunes-but mostly Rock n Roll. Tell me one of your favorite songs in your letter that I can look up. Will you get up at the theatres and dance with me when we go watch Guardians of the Galaxy 1 and 2.
AGE: I’m hitting what is retirement age (mid 60’s), BUT for me it’s really only middle age. My best friend Rich and I often wonder, “How did we get to this age so quickly when we still feel and act like we’re 20,“ well maybe 30 or 40. You see I play about 10-20 years younger. TRANSLATION: I have a lot of energy and a quick mind thanks to God.
When I was much younger, I would date older women as they seemed more mature and confident. But now I have reversed field. Now I date women 10-20 years younger so they can keep up with me energy wise. I haven’t found a woman that can match me energy wise. My Daughter comes closest, but maybe you’ll be the first?
The age difference appears to make dating a European woman a great fit. As many European women date and marry much older men. For that reason, the age disparity appears not to present a problem. Please tell me what you think and have experienced with age difference.
Now a large age difference here in America leads to differences in basic ways of living. For example: music likes (which I talk about later) are often from your time period of growing up and in our case our cultures. So that could be challenging, but we’ll see. Will we tap our feet to the same music, be moved to tears for the same lyrics and get all romantic to similar vibes.
Now there is an age limit on the bottom side (meaning too young) and even that is a little blurry, but only a little. So I’ve randomly set 40 as the bottom end. Just think, if you are only 40 now, in 20 years I’ll be 84 and you’ll just be hitting 60. Will you be able to keep up with me then? Will I be keeping up with you? If you are younger than 45, please tell what reason we can be together at your young age. I’m open to hearing it.
I want a lady who wants to build something with me. Helping elderly, children and small businesses. I enjoy building businesses and helping them reach the marketplace successfully. I enjoy seeing people grow, those that want to. Mentor and be mentored. I know that's broad, but I'll tell you more specifics as we go along.
I like someone who can be wrong, but generally is right
I don’t want someone who tells me they are strong…but they are.
A lady told me about 10 years ago that I need an intelligent woman.
What will you need from me and my family and friends to help you?
So how will you be able to start a new life in a new area?
Have you been out to America or foreign lands before?
This is just the beginning.
More to come. . .so much more. Getting me excited already.
You will have the most amazing journey if you participate…or nothing at all.